Dont get me wrong, like i said earlier in the discussion to each his own , but I am just surprised that these men would do so...was there an agenda behind it???

the preferrence for a skin colour can be wrong the person who says so is radical. No worries if it's just said and not effectively applied. Guys u're missing out if u go for just one side!

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Look in all honesty I have no problems with sistaz dating non-black men...I do not discriminate, or shall I say, stick to a particular race. It is always a thrilling period when you learn about a different culture, look at things differently etc...sometimes you connect with someone and that person just happens to be a non-white. For guys who are in it for the dough....I think the ladies they date know that. I will be the first to admit it...women are smart....but a little too ambitious. (Allow me to elaborate before you all kick me in my soft spot)....most women can tell when a guy is into them, cheating, all about sex, money etc...but strangely they will hook up with such an individual with the notion that they will CHANGE him.....

Very true, call me unambitious but I personally dont believe in changing a man - i think its kind of disrespectful like saying men are easily manipulated. Why panel beat a used car when you can get one that is just right (unless there is shortage of course)

I love your philosophy there my dear, I am glad you were objective in your response. It depicts you as a non-biased contributor to this 'volatile discussion' I am sure most is not all (except Kai) men in here appreciate your honesty.

I personally believe these black men who think white women are better then black women don't love themselves. When a man hate himself he attack the very people that mean so much to him, the BLACK WOMEN. === Original Message === i will totally marry a white woman coz i want mixed blood children! ...hhmmmnn a russian-rwandan combination would be great.

let's see what happens.

Yes i agree there are some complex inferiority in our black men this possibility may have originated from the slavery days, when a black man was seen as inferior to the white man. The void is stil big for these black men & by having white women & mixed children substitute their feelings of seen less in comparision to their counterparts white male.

I believe that those men who go after white women are missing out on alot and that is a fact. " There Is No Love Like Black Woman " Nuff Respect To The Black Queen or The African Empress. Some of us black guys love you African Women to Bits.

Most men I know who have dated white women have ended up going separate ways. No offence to white women but at the end of the day when it comes to cultural values this is where most of the time arguements come up. However, I do know one white lady from Ukraine who speaks fluent Shona and she has been married to a black guy since 1992.