It seems strange to learn that
                           Not many people are sincere  but
                                            they expect sincerity.

                                It seems strange to learn that
                                   People  do  want to lose but
                                     they expect others to lose.

                                It seems strange to learn that
Not a lot of people commit  their lives for the sake of
                                                            others but
                      they expect commitment from others.

                                It seems strange to learn that
                             Not a lot of people give love but
                                  they expect love from others.

Are these incidents strange or just facts of life that we
                                   need to learn to understand ?