What's wrong with people, what's wrong with men? I'm pissed off and I'm tired! Is what I want so much?

A respectful man who doesn't have another woman, who doesn't WANT another woman and who knows how to treat a woman like a lady.

First off, if you're in a relationship and a nice woman hits on you, tell her up front and in person and then be on your way. No girlfriend on the side, no keeping it a secret until you get some. Be a real man and come clean and then move on!

If you're a single man reading this, and you want to really impress a woman, here's what you do.

Ask her out on a REAL date, like you plan what time to pick her up, where you're gonna go and what you're gonna do. AND NO, hanging out at your place in the hopes of getting busy IS NOT A DATE!

And yes I said pick her up, I know it's hard times and some people don't have a car but damn make a miracle happen or something! Or if she has a car, then take the BUS to her place and pretend like you picked her up! If you don't want to do that and she's picking you up, at least acknowledge that you wish you could have picked her up and promise to make it up to her!

If she lives with her parents, ring the doorbell and introduce yourself like you're not trying to get some and get out. This calling and saying "yo, I'm outside" crap is over and done, it's not impressive!

If she lives with roommates, same thing applies.

If she lives alone, don't invite yourself in unless she asks you to come in, this applies to before and after the date.

Take her to a nice place - it doesn't have to be expensive but it can't be McDonald's either! And pay (ladies if you're reading this, offer to pay and make sure he insists it's ok!). If you're going to see a movie, WATCH THE WHOLE MOVIE. NO TOUCHING, no feeling up, unless you're getting a seriously strong vibe. You can hold her hand if the vibe is right but make sure the vibe is right before you try.

If there's chemistry and you'd like a second date, when the date is ending you may hug her or kiss her (again depending on the VIBE), even a kiss on the cheek would suffice! DON'T expect sex on the first date (if you get it, hey good for you, but don't expect it and you can't be disappointed). THEN, call her and tell her you had a great time and wish her a good night.

A point of order, if you're dropping her off, make sure you get out of your damn car and walk her to her door! Don't just drop her off and hug her in the car and drive off. In fact don't drive off until she is safely inside and the door is closed again.

If you want a second date, try to at least mention it during the first date and feel the vibe, maybe discuss what else you could do together that might be fun. Then follow up with a phone call one or two days later, if she's not feeling it she'll tell you. If she is, then congratulations!

FELLAS, if a girl doesn't return your calls and doesn't call you, then please believe she is not interested!

If you're interested in a girl, call her and let her know, but if she doesn't get back to you in a day or two, let it go, she's not feeling you and doesn't want to tell you so because she doesn't want to hurt you. Yes some girls are like that!

And lastly, if you tell a woman that you WILL CALL HER, do it, by any means necessary! Even if your phone blew up, call her from a pay phone when you said you would to tell her that. If for some reason you don't have time for a full convo, call her and let her know that at least, and make arrangements to call another time.

I'm not asking much, are these things so out of the ordinary that a man can not do them? I don't think so, but the evidence is suggesting otherwise!