If a man wants you

If a man wants you nothing can keep him away
If he doesn’t want you nothing can make him stay
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviors
Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from heart
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy
If a relationship ends because a man wasn’t treating you as you deserve
Then heck, no you can’t be friends, a friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend
Don’t settle if you feel like he’s stringing you along because he probably is
Don’t stay because you think it will get better you will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better
The only person you can control in a relationship is you
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your separate set of friends different from his
Maintain boundaries on how a guy treats you
If something bothers you, speak up
Never let a man know everything, he will use it against you later
You cannot change a man’s behaviors change comes from within
Never make him feel more important then you are even if he has a better education…a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi god
He is a man, nothing more, nothing less
Never let a man define who you are
Never borrow someone else’s man

Oh lord if he cheated with you he will cheat on you
A man only treats you the way you allow him to treat you
All men are not dogs………….
You should not be the only one doing all the bending, compromise is a two way street
You need time to heal between relationships, there’s nothing cute about baggage
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to complete you…. a relationship consists of two whole individuals, look for someone complementary not supplementary
Dating is fun even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right
Make him miss you sometimes
When a man always knows where you are and you are readily available for him he takes you for granted
Don’t fully commit to man that won’t give you everything you want
Keep in your radar but get to know others!!!!!!





hugs,kisses and cookies,
christelle.